- Forget about Plastic, Resin, or Silicone Chastity Devices. Make sure that You Lock him Up in a Stainless Steel Chastity Device which has an Internal Locking System. First, there will be no chance for him to cut off the padlock with a pair of Bolt Cutters. There will be no way for him to unlock the device except with the Keys, which You will keep and Guard diligently. Secondly, You will not have to allow him to remove the Chastity Device for Cleaning. With a Good Stainless Steel Device as shown above, his penis will get plenty clean in the Shower. No need for removing the Device for Cleaning. He might not like that idea, but You will!
2. He will probably tell you that he needs to keep an Emergency Key in his possession in case he should need it. DO NOT give him a Key. Instead, put the second key in an Envelop. Seal the Envelope. Then write a Message with Your Name all along the Fold of the Sealed Envelope. Cover your Message with Scotch Tape Totally so that You will instantly know if th envelope has been opened. Make it very clear to him that if an Emergency should arise You expect him to call you ahead of time, explain the emergency, and only open the envelope to retrieve the Key after notifiying you about the Emergency. Make sure that You Inspect the Envelope on a regular basis. If your partner has opened that Envelope, he is in deep trouble unless he notified you ahead of time, and it was a Bona Fide Emergency.
3. Please look at the Pictures. Make sure that when You select a Chastity Tube for your Partner, that you make absolutely sure that the Length of the Tube is not too long. His Penis should touch the end of the tube so that there is no chance of him having an Erection. Do not listen to him. He will try to tell you that the Cage is too short. It should be short. There should be no room for his penis to grow at all. A tight cage and a properly snug ring will ensure that there will be no way for him to get his penis out of the device. As a side note and a benefit to him, a tight cage will actually be more comfortable since he can not have an erection, and the cage will not pull on his balls like it would if his penis tried to get hard.
4. You, as the Mistress in the Female Led Relationship are “In Charge”. Make sure that your partner knows that. You, and You alone will decide when and if he is released from the Chastity Tube and allowed to be able to Cum. Make sure that he knows, that You do not want him to Ask You when he will be released. Make sure that you know that You do not want him to Beg for a Release. If he should ask or beg, make sure that You add additional Weeks to the time he is Locked Up in addition to the time You already had in mine. Do Not Capitulate … Do not Feel Sorry for him. Keep Him Locked, and You will reap the benefits as he becomes more submissive due to his Enforced Chastity.
Good Luck …. Enjoy Your New Control!