“Ladylike Magazine: The TOP 8 Tips for a Female Led Relationship” by Claire Curtis
What exactly is a Female Led Relationship?
The good news is, it can be anything you want it to be.
At it’s heart, a Female Led Relationship (FLR) is when the woman takes control of her man. How you decide to exercise this power is entirely up to you. The point is, your husband should be submissive to you and obey your decisions, even if he doesn’t totally agree at first.
Often, this involves a reversal of traditional gender norms in a marriage. A lot of women decide to take control of their household finances. A FLR often involves a wife’s total sexual freedom to sleep with men outside the marriage. Meanwhile, the husband might be denied sex, or certain sexual rights, for long periods of time if not indefinitely. Naturally, the husband will be required to do the distasteful household chores that have so often been considered women’s work, such as cleaning and cooking.
Again, these are all suggestions. For instance, I happen to enjoy cooking, so I don’t make my husband do it. He does have to clean the kitchen for me when I’m done though. And aside from cooking, he does most of the domestic chores. What woman wouldn’t want their husband to wait on her and treat her like a princess, every day?
Has your man ever asked you to do something in bed you didn’t want to? Well, that wont happen in a FLR. Maybe you just want to cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie together instead of having sex. Maybe you want him to go down on you. Believe it or not, a lot of guys can be trained to become completely obedient and docile lovers.
It is usually only beta-males who get married. They might think that they are Alpha-males, but in their hearts, they know that they want a dominant woman to kick their ass and boss them around.
And what about the Alpha-males? Have you ever met an amazing guy who struck up a conversation and made you cream your panties with his smile? Wouldn’t it be nice if you could just have a casual hook-up with guys like that, even though you’re technically married?
You might be surprised to learn just how many married men are already cuckolds even before their wedding. My husband wasn’t originally on board with my sexual freedom, but I am proud to say that I have trained him to be an obedient and submissive cuckold. And, believe it or not, he thanks me for it now!
Male sexuality is complicated, but in a lot of ways I can sympathize with him. I love being submissive with my long-term bull, so I can see why my husband allows me to dominate him in the same way. Giving up control can be the best kind of release.
Of course, you are the boss. You can sleep with your husband’s friends or you can merely threaten to do so. It’s always nice to have that card in your back pocket to use if you need it. And your husband should always be aware that you could cheat on him at any time and that he is powerless to even protest.
I have never really thought of myself as a tomboy, but I really do wear the pants in my house. When I married my husband, I never imagined that I would end up pegging him with a strap-on dildo more often that having actual sex with him. But sometimes, the most Ladylike thing a wife can do is turn her husband into a little sissy bottom.